Showing posts with label Law of Attraction mistakes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Law of Attraction mistakes. Show all posts

Monday, August 12, 2013

Conquer Fear to be Successful in Using the Law of Attraction

We all know that the Law of Attraction works on what we think. But what if you have FUD, Fear, Uncertainty and Doubt, what do you do to make sure that the Law of Attraction and the Law of Polarity work for you, not against you.


The following article discusses this fact about the Law of Attraction: fear will start the Law just as quickly as desire. So be careful of what you think.


As always, to your success.


Michael Wilkovesky





Fear And The Law Of Attraction, By: Danilo Fleming



Fear thoughts is that condition of the mind in which everything is seen through blue glasses -- in which everything seems to bring a sense of the futility of endeavor -- the ``I Can't'' principle of mentality, as contrasted with the ``I Can and I Will'' mental attitude. It is the noxious weed in the mental garden, which tends to kill the valuable plants to be found therein. It is the fly in the ointment -- the spider in the cup of the Wine of Life.


So far as we know the first person to use the word ``Fear-Thought'' -- which has now passed into common use -- was Horace Fletcher, the well-known writer, who coined it to supplant the use of the word ``Worry'' in a certain sense. He had pointed out that Anger and Worry were the two great hindrances to a well- balanced, advanced and progressive mentality, but many misunderstood him and urged that to abolish Worry meant to cease taking any consideration of the morrow -- a lack of common prudence and forethought.


And so Fletcher coined the word ``Fear-Thought'' to express a phase of his idea of ``Forethought without Worry,'' and he entitled his second book on the subject, ``Happiness, as found in Forethought minus Fear-Thought,'' a very happy expression of a very happy idea.


Fletcher also was the first to advance the idea that Fear was not a thing-in-itself, but merely an expression of Fear- Thought -- a manifestation of the state of mind known as Fear-Thought. He and others who have written on the subject, have taught that Fear might be abolished by the practice of abolishing Fear-Thought from the mind -- by driving it out of the mental chamber -- and the best teachers have taught that the best way to drive out Fear (or any other undesirable mental state) was by cultivating the thought of the opposite quality of mind by compelling the mind to dwell upon the mental picture of the desirable quality, and by the appropriate auto-suggestions.


The illustration has often been stated that the way to drive darkness from a room is not to shovel it out, but to throw open the shutters and let the sunlight stream in, and that is the best way to neutralize Fear- Thought.


The mental process has aptly been spoken of as ``vibrations,'' a figure that has a full warrant in modern science. Then, by raising the vibration to the Positive pitch, the negative vibrations may be counteracted. By cultivating the qualities recommended in the other lessons of this book, Fear-Thought may be neutralized. The poison of Fear- Thought is insidious and subtle, but it slowly creeps through the veins until it paralyzes all useful efforts and action, until the heart and brain are affected and find it difficult to throw it off. Fear-Thought is at the bottom of the majority of failures and ``going down'' in life.


As long as a man keeps his nerve and confidence in himself, he is able to rise to his feet after each stumble, and face the enemy resolutely -- but let him feel the effects of Fear-Thought to such an extent that he cannot throw it off and he will fail to rise and will perish miserable. ``There is nothing to fear except Fear,'' has well been said.


We have spoken elsewhere about the Law of Attraction, which operates in the direction of attracting to us, that which we Desire. But there is a reverse side to this -- it is a poor rule that will not work both ways. Fear will set into motion the Law of Attraction just as well as Desire. Just as Desire draws to one the things he pictures in his mind as the Desired Thing, so will Fear draw to him the thing pictured in his mind as the Thing Feared. ``The thing that I feared hath befallen me.'' And the reason is very simple, and the apparent contradiction vanishes when we examine the matter.


What is the pattern upon which the Law of Attraction builds under the force of Desire? The Mental Image, of course. And so it is in the case of Fear -- the person carries about the Mental Image or haunting picture of the Feared Thing, and the Law of Attraction brings it to him just as it brings the Desired Thing. Did you ever stop to think that Fear was the negative pole of Desire? The same laws work in both cases.


So avoid Fear-Thought as you would the poisonous draught that you know would cause your blood to become black and thick, and your breathing labored and difficult. It is a vile thing, and you should not rest content until you have expelled it from your mental system.


You can get rid of it by Desire and Will, coupled with the holding of the Mental Image of Fearlessness. Drive it up by cultivating its opposite. Change your polarity. Raise your mental vibrations. Someone has said, ``There is no Devil but Fear'' -- then send that Devil back to the place where he properly belongs, for if you entertain him hospitably he will make your heaven a hell in order that he may feel at home. Use the mental Big Stick on him.





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Sunday, August 11, 2013

Law of Attraction Mistakes

Every great work, every great accomplishment, has been brought into manifestation through holding to the vision, and often just before the big achievement, comes apparent failure and discouragement.” - Florence Scovel Shinn






We all want the Law of Attraction to work for us every time we use it. However as explained in the article below, sometimes we make mistakes in our life and methods and then the Law of Attraction doesn't work and we become frustrated and lose faith.


To your success.


Michael Wilkovesky


Six Mistakes That Stop The Law Of Attraction From Working For You - Life Coaching Program, By: MatthewFerry


As an executive coach, I notice one shift in mindset can translate to amazing results. As a life coach, I see people experiencing so much joy, love, peace and happiness in all areas of their lives – business, home, relationships with others, health. Setting the Law of Attraction into motion to achieve what you want can be a powerful force along this path. And I know this, and still I myself make mistakes.


I made some big mistakes last year and I want to share the results with you.


Everything I’ve ever taught has had this concept at the core: Be happy first, and everything else works itself out.


I observed it in the most successful people I met; I taught it to thousands who used the concept to have very successful lives. Then somehow I got off the path myself.


The moment I stopped trying to show the world I could have a big company, I felt joy. The moment I stopped working from guilt and obligation, trying to keep up appearances, I felt light and free.


The moment I let go of doing things that made me feel bad, and stopped doing things because they were things I had grown used to doing, everything changed. Everything got better. Everything accelerated. Things became effortless. Everything started flowing again.


Magic, synchronicity, and cooperation began to flow in my life. My wife jumped on board and starting helping me with everything, and we have been reconnecting and loving each other more and more ever since.


I got my joy back, and the moment I got my joy back. The Law of Attraction started working again! For me, it was even worse to completely realize that the Law of Attraction had never stopped working for me. The Law of Attraction gladly orchestrated all of my failures, set backs, resistance and obstacles.


But no one ever talks about that…do they? I want to share with you six mistakes people make with the Law of Attraction, so you don’t have to go there yourself. You can shift and find yourself back on track once again.


Law of Attraction Mistake # 1: I'm not clear about what I want and why I want it.


I know what I want! I want more money! I want to be fit, thin and sexy!” Most people say. Yet, most people who say that to me are fat and broke. They haven’t gotten to the bottom of why they want what they want. Almost everyone I meet is trying to prove something, demonstrate something, be something, show the world, and be somebody.


You are always getting what you want. You just aren’t clear about it, so when you get it, you don’t know you have it.


If you want fame and fortune so you can prove to the world that you are good enough, then your mind is clear that you aren’t good enough; otherwise you won’t have to prove it. If you are clear you aren’t good enough, then you will attract situations that make it obvious you aren’t good enough.


Law of Attraction Mistake #2: What I want conflicts with my beliefs.


This is the true killer of your manifestations. As a life coach, I see this all the time. You are always getting what you truly believe.


Wanting
(a) I want to be rich
(b) I want the love of my life
(c) I want respect and power
(d) I want to be #1
(e) I want to be skinny


Believing
(a) I’m not good enough
(b) I’m ugly
(c) I’m stupid
(d) I don’t deserve success
(e) I hate myself


You can see where what you want and what you believe may conflict. This sets up a Law of Attraction messing up of your resonation. You are resonating with one thing and another, all over the place. You will attract something but who knows what that will be. Get clear and let go of the beliefs that are blocking your wishes from flowing to you easily.


Law of Attraction Mistake #3: What I want begins to manifest from where I stand today (the mistake is most people don’t get that).


Where you are is the perfect place to get what you want. But, most people decide on their new intention and instantly make where they are wrong. They say “Some day, when I have this or have done that, then I will …”


This sends out a message: now is not enough.


Now is not good.


Law of Attraction Mistake # 4: I drop everything to pursue my manifestation.


People drop everything that is sustaining them. People drop everything that holds their life together. When you compromise your structure for existence, that critical mind part of you kicks into survival mode. Your life becomes a train wreck.


Law of Attraction Mistake #5: My focus is self-centered.


You will never be in the flow worrying about yourself. Worrying about self is seeing what is wrong. Instead, focus your attention on being of service to others. Watch what happens when you shift your energy to help others.


Law of Attraction Mistake #6: I’m obsessed with getting my results.


The results always come but they bubble up. They never look the way you thought they would. That’s the magic of the universe working on your behalf. Results show up in the way that serves everyone on the planet. So this is not always what you thought, in fact, the result seldom resembles exactly what you imagined. But it might be better.





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Matthew Ferry a Life Coach,The Life Coaching Company Matthew Ferry International offers life coaching, law of attraction and dozens of training products and seminars relating to the law of attraction to help you find your passion and love your life.

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